I find that I'm not good at being "flirty" with a girl who isn't clearly interested in me back or being flirty with me. For example, I have been talking to a girl right now. I've talked to her twice and she is very lovely and funny her laugh drives me crazy... but could'nt make any sort of move. On the other hand, I'm not sure if she likes me, and so when I go in for a move. I'll have to take a chance of course. At the time it'll be more obvious...But anyway, I digress. What little flirty things can I say to spice things up and see where she stands?

I find I'm pretty good at it with girl-friends because there's no REAL interest, so I'm 100% confident and I can make women laugh that way, since I can't lose (through not really wanting to go out with them). I need to somehow translate this for women I AM interested.

I think this topic should be suggested to ETS (TOEFL/GRE ) as an essay topic....LOL......and it seems Rythm is much more interested on this topic...dunno why!!!!

ms rhythm
i don't say i m 100% right...there might be few wrong points on my saying...please don't just pick one point and start commenting on that...look over all the words, whole posting...

Well it is a fact that its not only about gals and its not only about boys...its about human attitude...i might have more wrong attitude on gals so i might be saying that and you might have seen only good part of gals but with that neither u nor i can generalize the whole gender...
But i raise a question here to all girls including you....
Ask yourself whenever u think of of getting settled ...don't u first think of a settled guy who got partially settled up...have u or any girl ever think like...we are equal and look for a guy struggling for career ...NOOOOO...so where is independency and equality then...? i have seen my friends ...getting break up just becuase thier gf thinks he is still struggling and they found some person who is settled...
well all these things are just comments according to the things one has perceived...
u might have differet opinion and so do i..depends upon what u have seen and what i did...so things can't be generalize like what u r saying and wht i m....

anyway...sorry gals...if i pinch u all...no hard feelings it just a post....

chao

yaa, katti lamo lamo lekhya!! padhna man layena! kasto lamo! tut!
ali choto lekhe po padna man lagcha!
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Redstone i agree...tauko dhukyo. hehe

To rest.......i agree with my sis. We just happen to see what is infront of our eyes. We never know whats going on between two lovers...NONE of the realtionships fail without a reason...and if they fail then for me there was already somethign which didnt seem to work out. Sometimes in long term relationship just love is not enough. Love is a foundation but people need more than that to live happlily ever after.And dont forget you cant clap with one hand either. So lets not blame anyone...they have the right to live the life they want.

i have seen my friends ...getting break up just becuase thier gf thinks he is still struggling and they found some person who is settled
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Birkehy dai....and i have seen many married men still cheating on their wives....at east those girls didnt marry and had the gut to end up.?And in the end the guy will defenately get what he deserves So in the end all for good.hoina ta?

Please correct the mistakes and read.....im still half asleep. ;)

He he he he...this thread is all about Birkhey dai, Matrix Rose and Rythm....the question arises...whose saying is worthy........let's debate on that too....LOL

LOL Ardent I think that now the thread is abt to be abt you too.... and abt me being interested in this topic.. k garnu... abba ta post gardina bhanera soch chu tara feri kei pyachha bolna mann lagee halchha.. abba ma bhaye nai feminist.. heheheh

LOL actually the reason I was replyin before was coz it was fun... hehe euro ko flirt and red k o ideal wife.. tara then hamro birkhey dai asked some questions and I expressed my views.. pachi ta keti baarey ma k k bhani ra..

Abba I am not saying that all gals are like that.. I mean I think that there are some gals who do act like birkhey dai said.. kina ki ago na bhaye kana dhuwa hudaina... tara khai my views were diferent,... so tyai ho... abb with this I conclude my comments in this thread... na bhaye ta yo never ending hunchha... So these are my last comments... hehe nice to hear all of ur views.. c ya all later!!:)

haina...chaainjo...tyo EUROTRIP ko kuro chai kata pugyo? MATRIXROSE lai gardhanaan jhundaayera suinkuchai thokyo ki ke ho, bajjiye? yesso pragati, durgati je bhayeni haami ni sunna paam na, gaanthe!

Meri bassaiiiiiiiiii...herda herdai feri arkai jodi ko ni safar shuru bho? BIRKHEY DAI le ni RHYTHM maiya lai bhagaune bho jastai chha! :p

EUROTRIP & MATRIX ROSE...BIRKHEY DAI & RHYTHM...lu....

Mangalam bhagwaana Bishnu
Mangalam garuda dhwaja
Mangalam pundarikaakshya
Mangalaya tano hari!!!!!!!!!!!

[Poonte damai ko pandittyain, le laagos? ehehe]

He he he ..ya Rythm ...U GOT THE POINT THERE!!!

EUROTRIP & MATRIX ROSE...BIRKHEY DAI & RHYTHM...lu....

Mangalam bhagwaana Bishnu
Mangalam garuda dhwaja
Mangalam pundarikaakshya
Mangalaya tano hari!!!!!!!!!!!
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Poonte bro ke ho...laz lagdaina....trying to hook me with such a nerd ? Yesto ta dai hare. :) Besides i hate when someone comes up in open forum and says how much he wants me its simply weak and cheap to try to get sympathy from others...damn whats email for ?

bichara nerd re keto lai! jhan moya garera k k lekehcha, nerd bhanera lai di ra. bichaara ko bejjat bho! yo keto, if you're reading this, thueekaa mora, agadi ja ani i love you bhande na, k heri ra ko! looks like she's into you already! :p

Besides i hate when someone comes up in open forum and says how much he wants me its simply weak and cheap to try to get sympathy from others...damn whats email for ?
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Excuse me Mam? I have sent you 100s of emails by now but you never replied back. What have i done to you that you dont even want to say hi back to me ? I am sorry i had to come here to grab your attention. Sadly i failed again. Please dont make me come and wait for you infront of your door. I am a decent, good looking, educated man. I want you to find the rest and i am confident enough to say you wont regret. Hun be strong and give a try i promise you wont regret. Let me tell you a sweet secret i have been wanting you since many years i just waited so that when i purpose you, an Angel like you has everything she needs. Redstone bro its not as simple as you think. Listen her once and you will know what i am talking about. God WOMAN i miss you!

Country song lyrics to suit the mood:

"I gave her a ring and she gave me the finger!"

Another one:

"I gave her my heart, and she stomped the poor sucker flat!"


;)

Lau lau...joke garda gardai aba ta kuro nikkai serious huna laayo jasto chha...so, jokes aside. :)

EUROTRIP bro...your dedication is remarkable and your intentions may be sincere, but ke garne, when a woman says no, I bet she means no yaar. I find it hard to believe anyone would fall in love so madly even without meeting the person once, but if you have, isn't it only appropriate that you showed how much you loved her by RESPECTING her decision too?

Dherai kach kach ni garna hunna, bro...feri pencil heel ko chucho heel khappar ma gaadiyela...ani lop-sop ta parai jawos...thaharai houlau!

ani ta...Yamaraj ko chhori bhaye po feri maastira pugesi uslai side hanni...chhaina jasto laagchha...twaaaaaaaaa parera basnu parla! ;)

Bro, timro khutta dahrilo, chharito hundai ho...jutta jatti bhayeni payinchha...istyal istyal ko...accept this one as a good friend and move on, yaar...crushes and infatuations are momentary and whimsical...good friendship is eternal!

Poonte ofcourse i have seen her and i know her very well. I just did not want to go in detail.She is sweet, naive, intelligent and very polite. Never seen someone so down to earth and so helpful and so innocent. A men's dream. I will make her mine someday. Watchya.

HAHAHAHHAHHAHHHAHAHAHA.
Thanks for making my morning hilarious. Coupla queer eyes by my colleagues, and many subtle laughter, I gather my self to jot few lines.

(Fe/Male chauvinistic feminist) - wodering how it sounds. Anyways, back to the point.

After realizing one need not have a PHD or any certified degree/license to be a therapist, psychologist, or a shrink; here is my intake regarding the species regarded usually as "our" better half. :)

Brother Eurotrip and the likes, whatever you guys do to impress the female of the species, be extra-careful on 4-5 (approx.) days of the month while dealing with them. Whatever you build with your tireless effort and dedication will wind up to nothing if you play wrong cards on the "ever important PMS days". Make no mistake, it is nothing sort of PGS aka Post Graduation Stress, or perhaps even more, if females are to be believed.

Also, it would not hurt to understand that those 4-5 days, is the license for them to be rude, cranky, moody, irritating, and horny ;), thus be at your best in terms of patience, wit, and understanding and most importantly, seal your mouth or only say things after replaying and analyzing all the pros and cons in your mind 1000 times. It is indeed of colossal importance. And another thing, 'they' usually "become" feminist in extremity on those days, thus leave your chauvinism behind and be a GENTLEman. ;)

And yeah, that 'cerelax' statement was funny. This statement "Poonte bro ke ho...laz lagdaina....trying to hook me with such a nerd ? Yesto ta dai hare. :) " made me whizgigging for quite some tyam :p, and what can i say about Mr. Euro's comment. "Excuse me Mam? I have sent you 100s of emails by now but you never replied back. What have i done to you that you dont even want to say hi back to me ?" re. Hahahaha LMAO. You guys rock. So does mini shrink rythm :p. hehe.

And just out of curiosity, where exactly is your object of affection Euro? :)

ram ram ram ram. ( Goru haru bhir bata khasna atyooo :)
LMAO
IndisGuise:)

Eurotrip bro, i tell you, a girl is worth a fight and wait. You wait, she denies and runs away, and you run after her, and finally get her! its the sweetest!! not as much fun when girl's give in easy!! well...thats what i think! so if THAT girl is reading, lol, start running, like crazy, i know you're running already, but run harder, so EURO is gonna have to work extra hard, so his hard work gets mitho faal!
good luck!

You guys rock. So does mini shrink rythm :p. hehe.
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Even though I saw my name here.. and din understand what indisguise ji said abt me.. I M NOT GOING TO COMMENT... kina ki i said I wouldnt.. I am going to control my curiosity and not say a thing.. and people this thing I posted is really not a comment.. I M STRONG enuff to not comment!!(lol)

LOL. No it ain't. Whoever said, words are meant to be kept, did not implied to the better half of the species ;). Hehe.

And another thing, You are hidding behind the quilt of statements such as not participating in this discussion simply because you do not have anything credible to say. Would it not be easy to simply state that you do not have any logical arguments on the argued topic? Ahhh.. so much for accepting one is wrong. Common mini shrink, accept that you have been wrong all along.

Hahahahha, so much for not posting a comment. Looser :P. I know you've neither the guts to argue nor any succulent proof to support your logic, if any. ;)

In jest,
IndisGuise:)

Rythm sis.......dont listen to Indis hai hehe.....he is just trying to pull your legs and prove you are not strong enough not to comment....but doesnt mean so. Hehe

Yeah yeah, hide behind the curtain. So much for self declared feminist. When one can not argue or simply lacks the intelligence to present any logical, acceptable and practical point of view, they tend to bow out albiet in disguise of "terming" the argument pointless or never ending.

Simply put, mini shrink's argument doesn't hold any water whatsoever. And perhaps she can not or does not have courage enough to face the incumbent state of discussion, she send her so called 'sis' aka Matrix babe ;) to talk on her behalf. So much for standing for themselves, and females being able to face the world on their own. Tsk tsk. :p

In jest,
IndisGuise:)