I find that I'm not good at being "flirty" with a girl who isn't clearly interested in me back or being flirty with me. For example, I have been talking to a girl right now. I've talked to her twice and she is very lovely and funny her laugh drives me crazy... but could'nt make any sort of move. On the other hand, I'm not sure if she likes me, and so when I go in for a move. I'll have to take a chance of course. At the time it'll be more obvious...But anyway, I digress. What little flirty things can I say to spice things up and see where she stands?

I find I'm pretty good at it with girl-friends because there's no REAL interest, so I'm 100% confident and I can make women laugh that way, since I can't lose (through not really wanting to go out with them). I need to somehow translate this for women I AM interested.

ok hus hajoor..when can we start...??

hushpups,

u gittin married?? then, do not consider stayin pure... purity sucks...


flirt garne??

wtf....wtf???

johnnyBoy's funny and takes the entertainment level of this website up a notch.

Flirt for dummy or flirt one o one is available ... plez contact me at MBF.com

Get this book..it will help you all

Not a natural flirt? Not to worry - anyone can learn the simple social skills that will attract others to you.




Steps:
1. Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

2. Smile, smile, smile.

3. Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.

4. Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.

5. Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.

6. Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.

7. Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.

8. Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.

9. Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.


Tips:
Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.

Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you. Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.


Warnings:
Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.
Source:- ehow

oh yeah

HUSH, is that for real??? IF so congrats.

Peace out

Flirting ?????????? ha ha ha my fav job. Many of my frens wonder how much I can flirt..

Here are some of my personal experiences...........


1. Everytime I met a girl ( Of course Eurpean) they ask me why I came alll the way from Nepal ??

My answer-------- To meet the beatufil girl like you, (then hey hey.....its not enough.). I said REALLY I mean it:


I met one plump girl in a bar, not so good looking with falt face. I could never date with her in life we exchanged phone no..... and I sent her text message next morning " Oh dear u made my day, u were so special, I might be fool if I say ur the most btfl girl but Im of course fool. Whole nite I was remembring you.......Ur big earrings were so matching......... I simply like touching that"

Her reply came " Thanks but we cant meet again"

My reply........." It doesnt matter wheter we could meet or not, all I can say is ur one of the most friendly persons Ive ever met, u remember I directly went to talked to you coz u were lookin so friendly"

Her reply came next day " Good, u seem interesting person, but dont expect much from me, I do have Boy frined"

My reply " Very nice of u, Im goin to that CLUb with some of my frnens, u can come OF COURS with ur BF if u want"

She came next day to club BUT alonE ( I knew she wd come alone... u know these r the girls)

WE TALKED someting......and I ddnt put on watch KNOWIINLY and touchde her hand time and again sayin "I think ur not gettin late, lets see time now".......... Then I only talk abt her things, ask the things she watns to talk (NO matter,, its interesting for me or not) like her fav cloth, fav colour, fav drinks....back an forth......

Time went by and it was time to move, I gave my open arms to her and forcefully hugged her and tried to play with her hair.... she was not keen though......

That night my SMS to her " Ur so special, given a chance can hug u whole my life"

Her reply came " I felt so nice when u touched my hair, my BF never does so, u listen everything I said, ur very caring man"

After few days.........

Mero room ma " Nepali Dal Bhat, Tarkari --ready for her" In my room I wrote something with big letters "WEL COME ........(her name)..........to my LITTLE WORLD"


Finally......................it was my day.......


Now a days............she calls me 10 times a day........... KT ko jaat nai yestai ho..... all u need is LOVE......nothing else..........just nothing..............


Will share u many more incidents. .............later....

I was like holy molly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In a single day?

Anyways, it's been long, but, nonetheless, you are welcome Rythm.

Hahahaha hasaucha Amazing le.

Like someone said, "Amazing ko Amazing kura." ;)

O.k, I am up for the class as well. Sign me up.
IndisGuise hajirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr hoooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! ;)

'Miles to go before I sleep'
IndisGuise:)

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN SAJHA, I AGREE WITH JOHNNY BLAZE. LOVE THAT QUOTE DUDE. TOTALLY LOVE IT....
iT'S TURE, YOU EITHER GOT IT or you dont.
You can improve, but youll never get there. I personally dont know where I stand cuz I've never wanted to date, just a few crushes but bad decisions. So if you dont got it, just hope your daddy or mummy is super cool, knows your style, (and also hope youre smart and loaded) and hooks you up with some fine babe from Nepal. That wudnt suck that much would it?

Hush - Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Who is the lucky guy and when and where are you guys getting married (here or in Nepal)?

teaching someone to flirt is like teaching an american or indian to cook nepali food...just can't be done. u're just better off being yourself, why try n act different? don't u want the person to like u for yourself? good luck;-)

ooh ohh... my fav. thread back re k... long time ma.. i use to remember those days. it was sooooo fun :D..lol anyway you guys keep going!!

Flirting is really fun....I simply enjoy it. Flirting Nepali Kanchhis or Khairenis or Africans, its same. girls around the world are same. All they want is to be boasted and praised. In Nepal u might say " Timi lai yo Blue kurta kasto suhayako, Timi kati bhadra, dherai nabolne, shushil" and in Europe you say " Gosh!!!!!!!!!! ur lookin so hot, ur short hari made u so gorgeous".......

Looks doesnt matter KT pattyauna ko lagi........of course it helps if ur handsome but at the end of day it matters how u talk, the BASIC thing is to prolong discussion.....jati hunchha uslai kura garnu parchha...........just open the topic and say "oh yes yes, thats nice and so on"....................

if think ur a man, B MANLY..............or at least try to show to girls... in my experiences girls dont want someone who is not SAHASI......... all it means is PROTECT her....

Kati chha yaar lekhnu ahile lai yeti yaar...........


IndiGuise : Hahahaha hasaucha Amazing le.
Like someone said, "Amazing ko Amazing kura." ;)

Thanks IndiGuise for sweet compliment..... Ma sanga bhetnu parchha ajha kati ramailo garchhu...........thats why girls dont feel bored in my company........ ha ha ha ha

Just know where to draw the line...it can be healthy...:D Flirting doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have sex with the target, it is also an acknowledgement of that you think that person is attractive. If that person IS attractive, there is no harm done in showing it. In fact, you're a nice person for doing so. Cheating is not an option. Flirting is all in fun.

I have the same damn problem. People are always telling me im flirty, but to this day i still dont know what flirting is....hehe I think just being nice and conversing is considered flirting nowadays. but like i said, i still dont know what the hell it is, prolly never well..or do I? :D:D

>>Just know where to draw the line...it can be healthy!!!
:D...200 percent right...:)...Ma tagada ra tandurusta tehi bhyera ta bhayeko ni..haha...:D

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3 barsa purano thread. Ahile samma ta flirt garna siki sakyo hola.