I find that I'm not good at being "flirty" with a girl who isn't clearly interested in me back or being flirty with me. For example, I have been talking to a girl right now. I've talked to her twice and she is very lovely and funny her laugh drives me crazy... but could'nt make any sort of move. On the other hand, I'm not sure if she likes me, and so when I go in for a move. I'll have to take a chance of course. At the time it'll be more obvious...But anyway, I digress. What little flirty things can I say to spice things up and see where she stands?

I find I'm pretty good at it with girl-friends because there's no REAL interest, so I'm 100% confident and I can make women laugh that way, since I can't lose (through not really wanting to go out with them). I need to somehow translate this for women I AM interested.

thats sexxxyyy dog barking! owowowowowwooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :p

Thats sexxxyyy dog barking! owowowowowwooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :p
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Hmmm if Dogs are sexy....why we putting up with guys then...hehe.

hehe rose sis.. abba yo red k bhanchha thaah chaina... magney mancche ta beggars hunchan.. timilai k chahinchha hak le bhana.. heheh lol

malai euta swashni!!!
bihana mero khutta dhoyera pani khane, ani bed ma chiya lai dinea, ani kaha pakaune mitthoo. ani ma kaam gayera aapchi, khutta michidyera, aaram garna launi! ani feri khana pkayera khuwani!


i wish that came true! lol
can you make that happen rythm?
lol
ma kaam gaye, aba farkera auda euti sundari malai kurera basi rakhos hai ta!

I will bing a star from the sky but it is not necessary since there is already beautiful one here in front of me...HOw many times you have change your bf / Don't get that serious!!I'm just joking..

Malai euta swashni!!!
bihana mero khutta dhoyera pani khane, ani bed ma chiya lai dinea, ani kaha pakaune mitthoo. ani ma kaam gayera aapchi, khutta michidyera, aaram garna launi! ani feri khana pkayera khuwani!
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Red for ya...how cute you look with your mrs. ;)

Of course I can make that happen red.. lau not a big deal.. all I will have to do is invent a time macine... go to nepal as it was 200 years back... go to the most rural part and get a gal from there.. bring her here and get her to marry you...

Lau its as easy as that.. and dun worry you wont even havta be jealous or possesive as she wont tok to any other guy.. of course she WONT be able to tok to a lotta guys because of her inefficiency in the english language..

But what the hell? guys dun mind!! what they really want is a puppet.. whose strings they can hold.. and red.. believe me.. IT CAN happen as SOON as the scientific technology improves and a time machine is created.. u wont havta wait that long!!!

Rhythem and rose maiya haru...
ok i agree that its unreal and unfair to take wife as puppet...i beleive that they should b career oriented and smart. I don't mind them having male friends as long as they know the distance between good friends and flirt. U know what...what is most problem in gals...when they get close to guys..they start comparing with their bfs...and start deviating from their track and get emotionally attached to so called friend and the result is...disaster in relationship...
U should agree like gals are possessive boys do have some such habbits that there are certains things they don't want their gf/wife does with other guys..
coz gals are emotionally weak so they are very vulnerable in relations...so its better for them not to get close with other guys once they are in relation for the good sake...
and u know what...we guys...they are very oppertunist..on one side their will be sufferef ( the bf of the gal) and at the same time at the other side their will be a big oppertunist ( the friend of that gal with whom c is getting attached)...he will think..ok "moj garna pairakheko cha..aba bf vayeko kt sanga afu serious hunay kura vayena..moj garam ani bahana banayera chadi dium" ani ...
tell me who will be at lost at the end...the same gal hoina...???c will loose her old relationship and c will loose new one for which c broke old...and after that ...whenever c goes into relationship...guys will think like..."oh c already had 2 bfs..and breakups...ok this gal is not of serious type...so just have fun and leave..." then even gal start coming into track and thinkin seriuosly because of her past impression..c can never get into it...ani u know for gals..the most precious thing is her impression on others about relationship...once that is gone...hard to raise that back aagain...
after 2-3 breakups..even gal make into relationship..whenever c had discussion/problem in her relationship..guys will always take out that point showing her less ability to handle relation well...so who is at loss?????????
I agree that most of the time..gals are serious c might have thought geting more love n care while leaving old bf and going for new one...but at that time she doesn't think all these thing and c doesn't thin boys are oppertunist and he might be showin all care just to take advantage ...but whatever the reason is ..who is at the loss??????

so don't u think that after u r in relation...for gals...its better not to be very close with male friends...friends can be there but not too close...
and i beleif that once u r in relation...(as both of u r too gals...i suppose) take my advice..never start sharing ur personal things/ur thoughts/ur problems of life n relation..with another guy whom u consider as close friend..that will 200% wreck ur relation...coz once u find another guy with whom u feel soothed when u need to talk then u will definately start thinking negative about the guy u have and start comparing..and once u start doing that ....i bet..u surely are waiting for DISASTER and later..as i have said..u can only repent...saying..."oh that guy loved me so much..but i lost it and i can never get a guy who loves me like that..."

a keta ho, ho ki hoina vana ta....

Oki birkhey dai.. point noted.. I agree that in a relationship.. if there is some other guy the gal gets close to.. then she tends to compare him to her guy..

and of course at that time... she will only see the good side of the guy.. tara IF a relationship is not good... should the gal still put up with the guy??.. I know that guys are oppurtunists at times and that gals should think a lot.. I think a gals biggest fear is to fall across a guy who is only there to take adnantage..

And i also agree that if a gal is into a relationhship and it aint so good she should not go running to some other guy.. the thing i dun agree to is that... well if a gal breaks off with 2 guys kina ki they werent good.. or things din work out.. or somethin as such.... then she shud NEVER fall for a guy??? Shud the gal stay alone??

La lets say that relationship doesnt work again re.. ani should she sacrifice all her future and everythin just coz ppl are going to say that she is a playa or something?? I mean I know that a gal should think like a whole lot before gettin into anythin... tara... IF it doesnt wrok out she should think abt her happiness.. not abt what other ppl could say....

when I meant a puppet and jealousy I din mean that a gal should always be able to flirt with other guys or anythin.. of course if the gal IS IN LOVE.. she WILL NOT flirt with guys.. tara saano saano kura ma keti lai doubt garney and everythin is not good ni.. and to think that the gal SHOULD always listen to you and other mentality hunchha ni.. i think thats wrong..

Well as a whole.. my point is there should be some level of equality between men and women.. guys do try to take advantage of a gal who has been with many guys.. and the gal SHOULD think abt this side of guys.. and they should think a lot before getting into a new relation BUT only because ppl might talk bhandai ma a gal shouldnt stick to a guy she is not happy with... Did i relate to your prob..? or did i create a whole new scenario??

Rhythm
here i m not talking about troubled relation...what u have said is 200% right for both guy n gal if they are not happy with each other..in that case...noone should bound to each other and keep the realtion on compromise coz..compromise are for some time..not for whole life...
But here i m talking about...change..that brings in gals from getting close and sharing her personal things with other guy.

lets take an eg....
U and your bf are happy...definately no body is perfect...both of you have good n bad parts...once ur relation gets older...u both will know about each others good and bad side...nothing is perfect...definately u both want more but u both are happy...with what u have...
Here enters another guy...a friend of you, he started liking u regardless of ur present relation..then what will he think...definately to break u up coz ..man are dogs...u know..i agree that...
Then just to make u feel...he starts doing all good things u like, start showing a hell lotta care then ur bf...( he can do this coz he knows this is only to make u in his web for short time)..so suddenly u start comparing...( u should agree that in every relations begining there is exitement a big exitement and at that time..people only c good parts neglecting bad parts)...and once u start comparing ...once u start sharing..then Disaster...don't u think so...
OK now tell me....is it good to search for better one if u have already one??? ok u love ur bf , he loves u a lot too..but tomorrow if u find better one..will u leave ur bf??what i say is ...if guys feel that gals have compared him as better one then it just a need click to break gals..don't u think so????
c as i said nobody is perfect..but is it good for a gal to leave just for the sake of finding better one..in such case..don't u think gal will end up her whole life always in search of better one...one of my friend explain this very good u know...
This all happens only becuase gals are emotinally weak so they are very vulnerable...as i said gals are like WAX they don't have to do anything...it doesn't depend on WAX it depends on knife how hot it is to cut WAX...hoina..and knife are guys..very oopertunits...once they feel it...they will cut it...
I have seen a lot of cases..where gals left guys for no reason..and guys kept for suffereing...i think once guys are serious ...means serious...hard to change..but for gals...they are vulnerable even they are serious...just by showing her more attention...and care...one can easily make himself comparable to her bf...
i do want to continue this topic with you...i feel like i got a chance to talk from gals side on this....so do say what u feel...
don't u think whatever i said has some sense of logical analyis and reality...

Oki birkhey dai.. i do agree that a gal should not leave the guy in that case.. I mean of course if they are in love with each other and everyhtin...

Tara do u seriously think that gals do that all the time? I mean a gal has to be unhappy if she is leaving a guy.. there has to be some apparent reason... y would a gal otherwise leave a guy who is so loving and caring and on top of that... she loves the guy back...

Khai I dunno hai.. I think that if two people think that they are perfectly fit for each other no such things happen.. if that was the case (all gals leave their guys because they find someone who is more appealing).. then the world would not be the wway it is.

I know that when a relationship starts... everythin seems to be exciting and happy.. tara how can a gal even think abt another relationship if she is HAPPY in her present one? khai i duno what you saw and I dunno if any gal has really done something like this... I know that it is much easier to fall for a guy when a gal is experiencing a bad relationship..

Tara why would a gal EVEN think of another guy if she is HAPPY? thats what I fail to understand!! Khai maybe I did not get what u said.. tara in my view a gal would never dream of another guy if she DID love her guy and was HAPPY with him

ok tell me
what impression it gives to u about a gal..who says to her bf that...c loves him but it doesn't mean c shouldn't think about others...but at the end c is back for her lov...
there is a guy who likes her and keeps on saying he can't forget her even though he knows c has bf....and tries to take her to his side...do u think is it good???
and this gal...bit depressed, and her bf is out of the town for a year or so...for work..but loves her like anything and c also feel it but deviating towards new guy..and says..to her bf.."maya vayo vandai ma sangai hunu pardaina me and him (another guy) both know this...how would bf would react hearing this...?????and how much he is suffering???

gals meet that guy twice a week...phone for hours everyday..and c is still saying to her bf ..its nothing just friendship...how would u react??if u were in that bf's place???

With all these don't u think...gal is deviating and its a big flirt what both ar doin and that bf is suffereing??wht bf want is a straight forward decision but gal is not accepting that..keep on saying just friends...but wht the hell such a different treat n care if it just a friendship...
isn't it becuse the bf is not together so gal is deviating...but sometime remember it and tries to come back saying it is just a friendship?????

well now i want u to say how would u feel about this and try to analyse the three characters...the bf, the gal and the other guy..who should do what??
dont u think,
wht gal is doing is called flirt not friendship
what the other guy is doing is ruinin others life
and bechara bf is suffering coz he loves that girl hell a lot...and gal still keep on saying no one earth could love her like he does..

coz one of my friend is really pissed of from this...and seeing that i started hating relations u know...

Khai i dunno.. maybe the gal and the boy dun have anythin as such.. i cant just analyze any situation without lookin at the whole thing.. i mean i just dunno what u tokin abt.... tara IF the gal is flirting then thats wrong.... on the gal and boy ko side... ani tyo bf.. might be too sensitive at that time ni..thats a possibility too

khai all i can say is.. i cant analyze it or judge it without lookin at both side of the coins!!

tima haru lai hindi movie ajhai pugeko chaina jasto cha!!!!!!!!!

coffee bro
timi coffe khadai basa..but these are reality u know...when u fall in relation and start thinking seriouly then u will understand all these things...

i know birkhe yaaar!! hehehehehe
tyo ta tesai jiskeko po ta..... ali bari emotional huna laage manche bhanera..... hehehe

relationship works as long as they are commited to make this relation stronger everyday.... and things go wrong when they could not meet the expectations of each other... communication is the major key to resolve the problem between them....
and ppl should always have the space to improve themselves in accordance to the situation....

aba... hoina keta le yo yo garcha... raati raati club jancha (just one stupid example) bhandai ma keti haru le hoina baba hamilai society le hepyo .. this is social inequality .. haamile pani raati raati club jaanu parcha.. keta ra keti samaan ho.. bhanera yasto stupid kura ma equality khojera... social roles bhulne ho bhane... hamile answers kei ko paudainau.. baru question chai sabai tira vetchau.... thats why we need to have some space in our head to adjust with these stupid situation and a good enpathy is also necessary to know the aesthetic value besides the social role.. but i am not saying whatever roles soceity impose us are always correct... we need modification and improvement gradually too.

for me gals and boys are not different but they have different social roles acording to culatural aspects ...so.. gals le yasto sochne and boys le yasto sochchana bhanera karaunu bekkar cha.. gals are supposed to think like gal.. and boyz are supposed to think like boyz.... i dont see any point to do another kranti so that both gals and boys think exactly the same......

well equal rights and equal social roles ko kura garne ho bhane.. sabai bhanda paila... yasko suruwaat cerelexx baata garnu parcha.... kina bhane aaja timi 6 mahina ko bhayau (kidding hai.. being funny) hahahahahaha jiskeko hai.....
so what i think... to smell the feeling of euality lets make one rest room for both genders no separate rest rooms for men and women in public... hehehehehe if we can do it.. then i guess boys and gals might not blame each other for being indifferent... hehehehehe ... just a thought...

I agree totally with birkheydai and coffee's arguments and also partially (may be more than 80%) with Rythm's. I think i should not make any judgment about gals just with my few experiences but i have started to think that most of the present days gals (especially Nepalese students here in USA) do not like a serious relationships. They are more interested in doing something that is filmy and unrealistic. I never mean every gal but most of them are making their thoughts that if guys can flirt or make multiple gf then why not gal repeats the same thing. This sounds to me something like Kukur le khutta tokyo bhandhai ma kukur ko khutta tokdinu jasti hoola jasto lagcha. I know some guys are bad but gals should not necessarily copy their bad stuffs.

I also liked these statements from HD and Coffee-

...i think once guys are serious ...means serious...hard to change..but for gals...they are vulnerable even they are serious...


to smell the feeling of equality lets make one rest room for both genders no separate rest rooms for men and women in public...

Nut

hyaa, katti lamo lamo lekhya!! padhna man layena! kasto lamo! tut!
ali choto lekhe po padna man lagcha!

Here i too agree with coffees thoughts....
gals and boys are not different but they have different social roles acording to culatural aspects
It is best when both understand this...according to the social and cultural aspects both boys and gals should behave...
I have been seeing too that gals are making multiple relations when they are abroad...and in return...guys have only one comments..." tyo keti ta kati keta sanga hidi...bhalu vaicha yar"...this is why because..gals have forgotten their social boundries...society never accepts when they go around multiple relations....
i don't say..when guys do that is allright..its not right in guys case too..but with the constraint of the society we live...when gals flirt around that becames her life long impression....
if gals need equality..it should be in terms of work..career...
khana pakauna, club ma janay ani complete freedom ma equality khojnay hoina ...if gals needs equality then work like man do, take responsibilities like man does..handle lifes complexities like man does..when things like these comes...then gals hide them back of thier bf/husbands shoulder...saying u r man..u should take care of...they don't think equality there...but the hell they need equality in khana pakaunay and club janay ani doing exposures...its a shit man...
ONe thing everybody including gal should understand...
according to nature...man are to work and woman are to take care of house...but with the development...gals are getting career oriented too and that is very good, gals are geting independent..that is also very good...but yo sabai garyo vandai ma gals should not feel like "napaunay lay kera payo...." and shouldn't forget what is thier main responsibilities..what thier boundries and responsibilities in society....

keti haru jati sukai equality vanera chichyao vanay pani...the fact is that....
when gals roam around and try to be more equal to boys...n does multiple relation..then c will only get one comments..." tyo ta bhalu vaicha...ek thau ma kahilay tikna nasakni"..but if the guys do the same...no body ..will care of...THIS IS THE REALITY and THIS IS THE FACT with our society...and nobody on earth can change it...

so it is better, if gals knows their boundaries no matter how independent they became..they should always remin within the boundaries of social and cultural line...otherwise its only the GAL who is goin to suffer.....

sorry if i hurt somebody..just sayin the truth of our society....

if gals needs equality then work like man do, take responsibilities like man does..handle lifes complexities like man does..when things like these comes...then gals hide them back of thier bf/husbands shoulder...saying u r man..u should take care of...they don't think equality there...but the hell they need equality in khana pakaunay and club janay ani doing exposures...its a shit man...
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Okay.. I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH THIS... What world are you living in.. I am not saying that a girl HAS to have multiple relations.. I mean be it a gal or a guy.. multiple relations suck... tara what do u mean by "GALS HIDE BEHIND THEIR HUSBAND'S AND BF'S BACK" that is so unture...

aaj kal ko jamaana ma gals dun need guys to take care of them.. they recieve education.. and work.. and earn money for their living.. I mean come on.. whatever was happening here was alright.. I know each person has their own roles.. tara by saying that gals only wanna go partying ani k k u have proven yourself real incompetent

I mean I dun wanna offend you or somethin.. tara open your eyes and look around.. you will find veryyyyyyyyyyyyy few nep gals here who dun work and tell their guys to earn money for them... in fact gals work AND do the house work...

Pls dun bring these issues here.. this is not called socail roles of different genders.. this is what people call "gender discrimination". And I am amazed to see that there are ppl still existing who think that gals are still totally dependent on guys.. and cant earn their own living.... Very sad to see a posting like that... no wonder gals never get credit for their achievements!!