Hey guys,
Rahula again here...missed you all I had posted to my limit..so got a break
This is my question:
I have been seeing this girl/woman who works with me.We went out last weekend.I later found out that she was once married and has a four years old child.I have been reluctant to see her again.Seeking an advice.Mature posts only.Pervs need not post.
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If you like that gal, go for it. But if you are thinking about comitting, think whether you can accept the kid in your life or not.

But I say go for her.

Thanks for your info.high.I wouldn't have gone out if I had not liked her in the first place.

All the best bro

definitely yes..... when you like a person, nothing should matter.

yes you should brother.
Go for it. But, remember, your parents may not like it, but be brave enough to handle the situation later. Also, make sure that you take good care of the kid as your own kid.
Good luck!

Come on bro,

You should definitely see her if you two LOVE each other. "Pyar karna to darna kya"

Well, I would say, think carefull before making a decsion. MAKE SURE THAT YOU LOVE HER AND SHE LOVES YOU TOO. If this is the case, then you are going to be OK, go for her. Take care of the kid too. But if there is a slightest confusion on your part whatsoever which cannot guarantee that you guys can live forever, then think about it. Its better to say NO beforehand rather than going for it and leaving her on the way.

So dude, ask yourself, whether u like her or not...whether you will love to live with her together throughout.

Bro rahula...

It's good to hear that you are attracted to her and already going out and getting to know her better.
Before you make the commitment, be sure on few things. Make sure she is truly in love with you and would not leave you on any situation..

when we fall in love we don't think for tomorrow. we just think we have only today to think of.
I don't see anything bad getting involved with her if she is legally divorced and single again. But you might get hardtime from her son, no matter how much you love, they might not be convienced and feel like you are not the real father. Kids from your side and her side might have conflict being together. It happens in many families.

You already know, how nepali parents and relatives are, they might not appreciate your choice which can bring some disappointing moments.
Final decision is always yours....
यो केवल मेरो बिचार मात्र हो।... म आफै को सित सल्लाह मागुँ भैराखेको बेलामा सल्लाह दिँदै।।। :)

Do what your heart tells you! Dil ka mamala hai ...

If I were you I would stay away from her. Girls with kids have high expectations. So she's definitely into a serious relationship. What do you know maybe she still has a husband but wants to have sex with you. So be careful dude. I think 5 yrs ago a white guy murdered a Nepali dude coz he was having sex with his wife.