This is happening to one of my close fren (not sajha user) .........guys lz give some suggestion.........n my fren is the boy here

they first started with frenship n then now bf n gf
both seem happy
but the girl is afraid of their future coz they r from totally diff background
so she tells him to just be best frens...........
he dont want to..............he says he cant be her best fren after all this
he talks with the girl .......... they both admit they like eachother
but the girl concern is they will not be together in long run.......n dont want to hurt him or hurt herself
so she comes with this plan to avoid the further damage
but when asked she says there is no problem in dating also

my fren is confused now...........
but I think now its late to be again frens ..........
what do u think guys??????????? HELP him out..........

Majja sanga chhikknee ani chod dine ni ke ko tension

WOLF NAI RAHECHAU TIMI TA WOLFTIGER
I mean some serious suggestion ..............
thats y i seeked sajha to help my fren out

Are yaar No Hard feelings man just have fun and leave it

i am not the person ...........
i am tryin to help my fren out .............
n ur suggestion is not good ...........aba maile esto suggestion diye bhane mero sathi le k sochla ................?
anyways thakx .....

khai kohi pani chaina suggest garne .........................???????????

well this is a serious case and for real it happens with lot of people. i also went through the same situation once. well tell your friend not to be a loser and dont just let it go. if she fears that means there is still some space between them that needs to be filled up . believe once the girl truly trusts the guy and believes there is no other that can love him as much as he does she will have no option coz girls crave for attention and love but at the same time they dislike easy going fools those henpecked husbands types, and they also dislike too much ego. so he's gotta keep a good balance between all of these.and even after that, if she want to go let her go but remember she will come back. and ya forgivness always built trust among ppl in a relationship.This will work 100% trust me.

Friends will be friends right till the End..........

Depends on what your friend is up to? Long term relationship or just the flyby one? If he is looking for the latter then tell him to go ahead, otherwise just CTRL+A+DEL.Simple as that.

If they agree to be like friends after so many things, then why again want to build different relationship.
My suggestion is let it be whatever right now and be like a good friend. I mean good friend.

i think enigma is right in this matter
thaks guys for the suggestion
i will let my fren know about these suggestions
Neptalk , i think its realy hard to be freinds after all this .............right?

I wil tell what happens next in few days guys
I will appreciate more suggestion too
thakz again

Makhmali, why u r collecting advice for him ?

Both the boy and girl are your friend? I noticed, you are more interested to suggest the boy than the girl, which is a bit fishy here because both of them are in trouble not only the boy. Just wonder, if you have crush with the boy. In that case, there would be further interesting twist in the story.

For me, the girl seems more matured to take a better decision for her life. The girl has a bit of opportunistic approach as well. If the girl doesn't want to make the relation, it is better to break-off rather than glueing it.

chanaa..............
coz i am a good fren of the boy than with the girl

and i hope they wont breakup

but both have to comeup with agreement haina ra?

girl say nothing bad about realtionship but she is more towards frenship
boy say nothing bad with frenship but insist in relationship